Sheryllin White™ Publishing



Parenting 103 : 

 

… Get YOUR Competitive Edge and Throw Shade (only with your kids and in front of only your kids) by saying, “Do As I Did & I Am Doing!  I’ve Got My Degree YOU have yours yet to Get!  Let’s see how much more YOU can achieve than I did!  Show me! A Child is Supposed to Do Better and Succeed Far More than Their Parents! Get To It!”  

 

It is a mind game that motivates a child to succeed beyond their parents.  If a parent is always digressing about their flaws and failures then the child has nothing to compete with as they are maturing and growing through those years of discerning, “I Believe That I Know More Than My Parents!” Get ready, that faze is coming or you are already going through it!  (Are your kids throwing shade at YOU?) 

 

YOU as the parent(s) are the most influential role model that a child has from birth to age 21, remember that:  YOU are being watched; YOU are being studied; YOU are being mimicked; YOU are being heard; YOU are being assessed and critiqued; YOU are being emulated; YOU are being established as the barometer of their capable heights of success or failure; YOU are being uplifted or negated as significant or insignificant; YOU are being tested as truth-teller or liar; YOU are being seen as worthy or unworthy; YOU are being admired/ respected or disrespected because your actions and reactions are not admirable; YOU are being seen as the gauge to measure what love looks like and if love is seen correctly or incorrectly; YOU are the purveyor of self-esteem, self-respect, confidence, determination, persistence, perseverance, success, love, peace, calm, truth, values, honesty, etc…; YOU are the genetic champion of healthy or disease and sickness; YOU are the dream cheerleader or the squasher of dreams; YOU are the financier or the debt collector (overseer); and, most of all YOU are the orchestrator that keeps the adventures, beliefs, creativity, discovery, education, friendships, gregariousness, happiness, ideals, joyousness, kindness, learning, love, skills, spontaneity, talents, unity, values, etc … alive and thriving.  

 

 

YOU as the parent(s) are integral to

 

a child’s development and success, therefore,

 

Do NOT Shirk YOUR Responsibilities!   

 

 

 

By    S H E R Y L L I N   W H I T E